WHY ARE SO MANY SUCCESSFUL LEADERS AND ENTREPRENEURS FEELING UNFULFILLED?!

Unfulfilled Leader

Why do so many leaders and high-performance entrepreneurs feel unhappy, unfulfilled, and struggle with mental health issues like depression, anxiety, stress, and burnout?

Here are the statistics:

It’s because they’re focused on external goals as they chase success.

That’s why, despite being successful and affluent, you feel unfulfilled—mentally and emotionally imbalanced.

You feel like something is missing and keep searching outside of yourself for answers.

You keep focusing on success, achievement, and accumulating wealth, thinking these will lead to love and fulfillment. But they don’t!

Why not?

To answer that, we need to define success.

Success is simply setting a goal and achieve it.

For example, you say you'll wash the dishes in the morning, and you do. You set a goal to reach a certain revenue target, land more clients, or buy a new car, and once you achieve it, you’re successful in that. You might feel happy for a moment—or you might feel nothing at alllll!

Soooo, what does this tell you?!!!

Success is externalll: the clean dishes, the revenue, the car, the house – it’s all material. The things, the money….You might even succeed in dating the person you wanted.

But here’s the truth:

That’s why all these materials you’re chasing don’t give you fulfillment!!

SUCCESS DOESN’T EQUAL FULFILLMENT!!

Why?

Because none of these things nourish your soul, your core!

Fulfillment is on a Soul level!

I hear you asking, "But Jenny, what will give me the fulfillment I’m yearning for?"

I’ll answer that in a bit.

At 15 years old, a voice said to me: Love heals everything!!

And in my early twenties I realized that every answer I sought was already within me!!

Base on these two epiphanies I live a life rooted in love—especially for my family and those I care about. I give love as though each day is the last.

Why am I sharing this with you?

Because the fulfillment you’re searching for isn’t outside of you—it’s withinnnn YOU. And no one can give it to you but yourself! You have to learn to love yourself and feel worthy of love, of abundance, and discover why you are here on this Earth.

And figure out: What is your soul contract?

Is it easy?

Hell no…. And it takes time.

That’s why most people don’t do it, because it is easy to focus on external things, accumulate external things, thinking that you’ll feel fulfilled.

How do you reach a level of fulfillment?

Going within, doing the inner work. It isn’t easy. It takes time but it’s so rewarding.

Once you go inside, everything falls into place. You no longer have to work so hard, creating resistance. (because when you push hard, you create resistance)

 Going within means tapping into your inner self—hearing your inner voice, your gut feeling, aligning your mind, body, and spirit. You’ll find that you’re on the right “radio channel,” hearing and feeling clearly.

True contentment arises from within, from cultivating: self-worthiness and pursuing a state of bliss.

No one can give you self-worth, except yourself! Because self-worth is on a soul level!

The Million-Dollar Question: How do you go within and reach a level of fulfillment?!

Here’s a combination of areas to address:

o   Confront your fears and doubts

o   Deal with limited beliefs

o   Heal past traumas

o   Break bad habits

o   Break bad/Limited Patterns

o   Assess where your focus go daily

o   Choose your emotional home

o   Set boundaries

o   Prioritize Me time

o   Letting go of the outcome/Detach

o   Learn to surrender

o   Have the ability to Trust

o   Realize you cannot control people and situations

o   And more

To achieve the above you can use different strategies and techniques.

Here are some:

o   Mindfulness meditation

o   Breathwork

o   Visualization

o   Prayers

o   Connect with the Universe/the Divine

o   Raising your vibration (many ways: example: walk barefoot)

Strategies on a leadership level:

o   Learn to manage your time effectively

o   Techniques to manage your calendar

o   Strategies to manage your phone

o   Handle Email Effectively

And much more……..

 As leaders, achieving a state of tranquility is crucial.

The misconception that many of you leaders and entrepreneurs have is that you believe that, you have to take leadership courses to be a great leader.

But the truth is:  you have to be content and fulfilled first!

You have to work at yourself first!

You cannot give to others what do you don’t have!

If You Want Your Team To Grow, You MUST Grow Into Your Better Self First.

In order to be good at any role in your life, you need to heal, transform and elevate your soul first.

If You Want to Become a Better Leader, You MUST First Evolve Into Your Better Self

True leadership starts with self-improvement.

Personal growth is the cornerstone for enhancing leadership abilities and improving every aspect of your life.

When you work on your essence- your core, your soul- it’s creates a domino effect in every area of your life. Everything flows and fall into place, you don’t have to work sooo hard to be/become a great leader!

You will have inner peace, clarity and bliss Most importantly, you will develop spiritual knowing: the ability to know what, when, how to execute and who to execute with.

Anddd it will have a ripple effect on your private life as well. Isn’t that beautifulll?

It’is not about what you have, it’s who you are in your core!

As a high-performance leader, the most quality people expect from you, as a true leader is that you steer with unwavering resolute clarity, guided by not only conviction but also spiritual knowing rather than the desire to please or seek approval. So that this world can become a better place.

But many of you lack those fundamental skills because you are also emotional overwhelmed like many others. (no offense, but the truth needs to be said)

To develop these essential competencies, you have to be in a Blissful state.

Leading with unwavering determination and spiritual knowing fosters positive change in the world.

Be that positive change, by working at yourself!

Inspired?  Do you want to work with me?

Visit:

Blissful Leadership Mastery

Curriculum Blissful Leadership Mastery

Many Light and Love,

Jenny Nicolina